Being The Boss: EMBRACING A LIFE OF PURPOSE
In our busy everyday routines, it’s simple to feel overwhelmed and forget about what counts. As project and team managers, we often find ourselves on a perpetual quest for happiness, significance, and a sense of purpose. In this pursuit, we must remember the guiding principles that can lead us towards a more fulfilling and meaningful life: to be happy, to matter, to count, and to stand for something.
Like my Aunt used to say, “Don’t forget: In life’s rush, joy, purpose, and making a difference matter most.” [Note: She never said she was the first to say it.]
To Be Happy: Being happy isn’t just a passing feeling; it’s a way of living. To be satisfied, thinking positively and looking for the good in every situation is essential. Fill your surroundings with positive things and discover the strength of being thankful. Remember, if you think happy thoughts, you’ll be happy. It’s a simple yet profound truth that can transform your outlook on life.
To Matter: Feeling a sense of significance is a fundamental human need. To matter is to make a difference, to contribute to something greater than oneself. Whether in your personal relationships or professional endeavors, strive to leave a positive impact. Always complement those team members you see as necessary and helpful, recognizing the value they bring to the table.
To Count: Life is like a big, woven picture; each of us has a unique part to play. Recognizing your importance and the difference you make is what it means to count. Day by day, through consistent effort and a commitment to follow through, you can shape your destiny. Set clear-cut standards of conduct and responsibility, and don’t spare the bad apples in your group. Uphold the values that matter, and let your actions speak louder than words.
To Stand for Something: Being compassionate and helpful are potent ways to stand for something. Conduct yourself with care and consideration in all aspects of life. In meetings and at the conference table, give others the chance to talk first. Making intelligent choices happens when we share our thoughts and listen to others. Being the Boss, you see a leader, anticipate errors, and think ahead, guiding the team toward success.
Like my Aunt used to say, “Be positive, think happy thoughts, and surround yourself with good vibes. Your happiness is like a steady glow inside you, and it’s up to you to keep it shining bright.”
Embracing these principles benefits you and radiates positive energy to those around you. Remember, most of us do not own the companies we work for, but we have the power to influence and contribute. Always keep faith in yourself, and never underestimate the impact of your thoughts and actions.
Conclusion: Finding purpose and joy is more critical than ever in a world of challenges and uncertainties. By embracing being happy, helpful, and compassionate, we can create a life of significance and fulfillment. After all, our life is what our thoughts make it. Assume a positive attitude, and let the ripple effect of happiness, usefulness, and compassion transform your life and the lives of those around you.
Like my Aunt used to say, “Choose joy by focusing on good things, surrounding yourself with positivity, and being thankful. Your thoughts shape your happiness, so think happy, be happy.”
