THE ROAD TO SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS
March 31, 2024

BE FIRST, BE BEST, BE DIFFERENT

“The Road to Success and Happiness” teaches us that happiness comes from staying active, being kind, and keeping a positive attitude. But how can we make these ideas part of our everyday lives? Let’s uncover the secrets of being a leader, treating others fairly, aiming for greatness, always telling the truth, embracing our unique qualities, and showing kindness. These ideas are like guiding stars on our journey toward doing well personally and professionally.

“Like my Aunt used to say, “To find happiness and success, always keep in mind: Have

Something To Do, Someone To Love, and Something To Hope For.”

Note: [She never said she was the first to say it.]

Be First, Be Best, Be Different

Be First: Be a leader. Think about when you start a new job, and your role doesn’t include simple tasks like getting coffee or making copies. But, being willing to take on these extra tasks is a quick way to learn about the company. In this context, being first means being proactive. Seize opportunities, take initiative, and be willing to go the extra mile. Doing so will help you gain knowledge and become a valuable asset to your team.

Be Best: Strive for excellence. If your goal is to be excellent, you can’t settle for average work. Mediocrity is the enemy of success; it’s time to eliminate it from your life. Commit to being the best at what you do in every task, whether it’s typing, making copies, or delivering coffee. Treat your workplace like a garden; take care of it, and it will thrive with beauty, not weeds.

Be Different: Embrace your uniqueness. Being different doesn’t mean seeking attention for its sake; it means nurturing your unique qualities and approaches. In a world where being the same is often favored, embracing individuality can make a big difference. It’s not about standing out; it’s about your effort and attitude. When you eagerly fetch that coffee or promptly collect that package, you become the person who gets things done. This kind of dedication and uniqueness make you a valuable team member.

Promote Fairness, Honesty, and Consideration in Your Interactions

Fairness: Uphold fairness and respect for diverse viewpoints to create a supportive workplace.

Honesty: Honesty is the foundation for success and happiness. Embrace continuous learning and maintain unwavering integrity to build trust with others and yourself.

Consideration: Being considerate is also essential. Consider how your actions affect others, and understand that your success doesn’t have to harm someone. Practicing fairness, honesty, and consideration creates a harmonious environment where everyone can thrive.

Like my Aunt used to say, “Let Fairness, Honesty, and Consideration be your daily threads; they’ll weave a rope unbreakable by others’ deeds.”

In summary, the keys to success and happiness are being first, being the best, and being different. It also means treating others fairly, being honest, and showing kindness to those around you. Remember that you can shape your destiny; your choices and actions define your path to a fulfilling and prosperous life. So, be a leader, aim for greatness, be yourself, and watch how these principles transform your personal and professional journey.

Like my Aunt used to say, “Education opens the door, but your thinking lights the way.”